Life stories – Eve and Sue

Eve is in her 80s and her daughter, Sue visits her every day. I have always been struck how elegantly they have managed to negotiate the challenges of the mother and daughter relationship as they both get older.

Eve

“Sue and I have always been close. I enjoy my independence but Sue and her husband Rob are always there when I need them. I think it is important to talk openly to your children about how much help you need – and sometimes more importantly, dont need”

Sue

“Mum and I are very good friends. She is a very independent lady and whilst making sure she knows that we are always there when she need us, I am careful not to tread on her toes. She does tell me when she thinks I am being too over protective. I think that being open with each other helps us to maintain our good relationship so that we can cope with whatever life throws at us with resilience and good humour”.